Monday, September 12, 2005

Handling heartbreak
Many people can relate to such feelings. But you're only letting yourself down if you fall victim to unhealthy obsessions or are blinded by love you cant see anything else like me. No matter what, always do your best to love courageously, to be strong-hearted. But i cant. =( Youth is a time for advancing bravely into future. So please dont allow yourself to ver off course or fall behind or hide in the shadows.
Youth is not a time for pessimism (meaning always thinking negatively) or self-pity - that's what i always do. That mind-set is for LOSERS. Instead, in the face of rejecti0n, i hope i can cultivate a resilient spirit, that i will have confidence to think: "It's their loss if they cant appreciate how wonderful i am!" Well, that's only my wishful thinking. =(
I don wan a broken heart to discourage me. Tell myself that i'm not so weak or fragile that such a minor thing could bring me down right chuenkoh? =) I always think that no one could possibly compare to the person i had lost. Which is you, chuenkoh. =( I cant declare with certainty that there wont be anotht who far surpasses you in my affections. As i grow, i'm sure the way i look at people will change eventually.
Some advices for people :
Tell him or her no matter how difficult her immediate circumstances, he or she can absolutely turn her situation into something koyful. Of cos, this should not be a rationale for throwing caution to the wind. It's just that no matter where we fins ourselves, we should always mantain hope.
Sorry once again.. Chuenkoh.

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